Executive Director's Blog

Jan 15, 2013

Be the Best You: 12 Tips for the New Year



As busy working women, we often fill simultaneous roles as mothers, caregivers, students, and volunteers as well as working women. Over the years, we have received and shared helpful tips with each other, our clients and our volunteers about ways that we can be our best. As we start a new year, we would like to share these with you. If you have tips you have found helpful, we invite you to share them with us and others through our Facebook page. Happy New Year!

  1. Set aside time each day to be by yourself. Use this time (even if it is only 10–15 minutes) to think about or do something you enjoy. Engaging in such activities on a regular basis can promote positive energy and help you prevent or cope with stress when it arises.
  2. Remember that you are responsible for your own happiness. Look for the good in all things and remember: Happiness is about the total journey, not just the destination.
  3. Enrich your knowledge and your life by asking many questions and listening carefully to the ideas and thoughts of others. You are not learning anything new when you are talking.
  4. Carry your light with you wherever you go. In stressful times, visualize a favorite place that is peaceful and beautiful, or think about a cherished memory.
  5. Expect that you will get what you need and want; expect that you will be successful. Visualize what you want or where you want to be or what you want to achieve, and never lose sight of that vision until it becomes reality!  You usually get what you expect.
  6. Everyone has a bad day. These “bumps” are better met as challenges rather than as obstacles.
  7. NEVER say “I can’t.”  Instead, ask “HOW” you can make it happen.
  8. Believe in yourself. Make a decision and move on.
  9. Exercise and meditation will give you the energy you need to accomplish more.
  10. Leave your emotional baggage at the door. It can be counterproductive to your work and the work of others.
  11. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Ask yourself, “How important will this be in a week or a month?”
  12. Trying something new or doing something in a different way can be refreshing and can lead to creativity in various aspects of our lives. For example, drive a different route to work, prepare a chicken dinner in a new way, get a new haircut or style, learn a new sport or develop a new hobby.